Twitter wise

"No need for revenge. Those who hurt you will eventually screw themselves up. And if you're lucky, God will let you watch."

No specific reason for this post. Not posted to any specific person. but I felt like sharing to the world what these gorgeous girls tweeted. 

A pretty good reason for me to convince myself there's no need for revenge. or avenge. 

And a sweet reminder to all those people out there who loves screwing up over people's life. 

And most importantly, reminding people who loves lies. If Allah wills that you can't keep all lies together, that you get screwed over your own lies, if we're lucky, we'll be able to watch your downfall. 

Tutti Frutti okay!

Credit goes to someone else.

Credit of editing goes to me, LOL :P

TUTTI FRUTTI ok, not Frutti Tutti :D

At least someone knows.

Whoever bought me this is sure the sweetest person on earth! Do you know how long I have been craving for dark chocolates? This, people, is what I called perfection of the day ;)

Surprise birthday party for my roomie ;)

It was us, part of the housemates who planned this for our little baby Mira who's turning two zero this year.

It was simple but I thought it was a blast, the party was awesome in a way it gathers us all...

I wish it was the best present she could ever have for turning into an adult (well there's no more 'teen' to be pronounced in her age ;p)

We really wanted it to be a moment, a special day, a day to remember for the rest of her life. Even when we're no more together, or when we got lost in contact. I want her to remember :)

I can't tell what we did, but these pictures shall tell. 

The setting before Mira's arrival *everyone was in excited mood

And there he is, our present from us :P we fetched this present from Unisel Batang Berjuntai all the way to Shah Alam so that she could celebrate with one she loves :) We kept him in the box and asked Mira to open her present and be very careful so that she won't have heart attack! She screamed anyway haih hahahah...

Pizza was our menu. Did i mention how much I love 'together-ness'? I do.

awhhhh ~ that romantic moment! xde sape bleyh kacau! haha

She's lucky and i hope she knows that ;)

Precious people <3 

The people who made the party into a success >.<

These ladies are AWESOME. 

she told him she wanted cupcakes and he got her cupcakes =)

AND HERE COMES THE AFTER PARTY! THE REAL CELEBRATION. THE TRADITION! :D

We closed Mira's eyes, put her in the center of our circle and bash her with the flours in each's hand. xde kesian-kesian. hahaha

covered in flours. demmm

Ain't she cute? =D ikr

Haruslah COUPLE kene teruk, the victim of the night ^^

She got a rose, I'm jealous much? hahaha

AND THAT'S JUST ME INTERRUPTING, TRYING TO BE CUTE ;P (do not puke! haha)

To dear Nor Amirah, we really hope you enjoyed our surprised, no, we hope you love it... 

Maybe it's too late for me to say this here today, but Happy Birthday dear, May Allah bless you with loads of loves around you and I pray you get to keep the one you love forever happily ever after, InsyaAllah.

"Be good, be nice, be wise as you grow older"

I love you :P

Healing from a break up

I swear to God I did not write this to the Sunday Times. But this writing, has almost the same story as mine. and the same duration -__-" Read them :')

Question:

HOW do I stop from loving someone who makes himself unavailable and refuses to reciprocate my caring? We dated for three years and suddenly he said we were through, without an explanation. How do I stop hoping for something more from this person? I even have trouble using the "ex" word. Please help."

Tessie answered;

Can you expect a beggar to give you a car? and would he be too concerned with his hygiene?

Would you ask a chauffeur for a diamond ring?

When you aren't blinded by your emotions, you would naturally match your hopes and expectations realistically, knowing the people around you. You'd be more capable of reading the signs.

The difficulty here is that you can't let go of your hope that he could still be available. 

Ah... you think perhaps if he would understood you better or if you showed him more clearly how much you loved him, he would come around. Then there's the bit where there's no explanation. The man didn't even allow you to take part in your break-up!

The path to healing is to understand the emotions and beliefs you have about yourself that make you hold on to this unrealistic (and painful) expectation.

Such beliefs include "All my relationship should last forever" and "If someone leaves me, that means there's something wrong with me".

Once you have challenged, reoriented or healed your mistaken belief, you can let go of the hurtful hoping about this guy, but still get to keep the love.  

Adapted from  NEW SUNDAY TIMES, JANUARY 15 2012.

It hurts to let go but life goes on (:

my beloved Silly, this is a post for you.

I love it when we say the same thing at once and you'd beat me by saying "jings!" first, and if I catch up with you we'll lose our breathe trying to win over the 'jing' thing. It has always been fun for me :)

We often wait for the date of 14th to come, but when it comes we often forget about it. But today, the day I'm writing this post, I got to wish you happy anniversary. We haven't wish it for quite a while, have we? I'm late one day but at least I didn't say that 14th is the day after tomorrow... Perhaps you're missing me too much that you got lost of the dates? ;p

You know when you get something you always wanted and once you've owned it, you just can't help to keep wanting more? I guess that's the problem with me. And with you? I just can't say for sure. Don't even know if you know this stupid feeling. I got you as a boyfriend, and then I wanted you to be perfect. How stupid can I be, nobody's perfect. 

But I forgot because that was all I see in you that I want it in reality too. I forgot how nice it was when you were a friend, a bestfriend, and a boyfriend to me... I forgot the feeling of how nice it used to be to laugh without having the perfect reasons, to be on the phone without having topics to be talk about, to spend hours talking and end up not knowing what we talked about, to chase each other in the shopping mall, to eat donuts and get creams on your nose... 

I guess I wanted a perfect, serious relationship so much that we forget how to have fun. I spent too much times wanting everything to be in order, wanting you to know what's right or not to say, to act the way I want you to act. Typical girlfriend am I? I shouldn't care so much, I should believe in you that you can take care of yourself without having me to bug into each of your decision. I was so selfish I guess... Do you have any idea of how much I want to go back to the old days, bring back the Hanii you first fell in love with... but you gotta help me here.

I know things have changed. But if it can change then we can surely change it back right? So, help me... We talked about this many times before, but this time I won't say it loud, act natural and see where our hearts will take us too...

I don't want us to be like any other typical couples. I know things will turn out different for us. I know they'd say it is something people say when they're in love, and yes, I am in love with you, and I believed, things are already different for us. We're so unique in a way yet still look like an ordinary couples. Our friends can't stand us, that shows already our sparks are, no, not sparks, but fireworks. It is amazing. We're gorgeous and it is too much for them to handle :P

But we're just too late for any of that. Goodbye....