Relationship on a brink of disaster?

WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE HE DOESN'T CARE, DOESN'T HAVE TIME FOR YOU ANYMORE...

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"if we are important to them, why cudnt they spend just a few mins texting us or call us right? we want to be appreciated, we want to know that we r needed. that we are the first n last thing on their mind. but to them, as long as we know they love us, thats enough. we r used of them calling us all the time that when this happen, we feel as if that things change.. 

well, all i can say is, DON'T MAKE SOMEONE YOUR FIRST CHOICE WHEN THEY ONLY MAKE YOU AN OPTION. 

i know its hard, but thats what u had to do. the more you make space in your schdedule for him, the more u make urself available for him, the more the same thing is going to happen. busied urself doing something else. go out, have a new hobby,read books, work, just do something. indulge urself in sumthing new. put ur phone as far as possible from u. dont spend ur day waiting for him to call. once u start doing this, u'll find urself doing better without him. u spend less time thinking about him. n ull be more independent. n the hurts weaned down a bit. n the expectation wears off bit by bit. it still hurts of course, but u r less affected by it. 

... 

but don't let him get away with it either.u have to tell him how u feel, n he has to know what u feel. however, if u guys talked bout this hes going to feel that u keep attacking him n blaming him, he'll be more stressed out, n he knows the only thing that cud stop the argument is to say sorry. so he did, without meaning it. talking only makes things worse as he feels attacked, while u jd lagi marah n marah coz he doesnt acknowledge ur feelings. lag2 2 tgh marah kan." - AZ 

Its an advice given by someone I trusted. Its good to know someone actually understands how we feel right? That's what happen I guess when a relationship starts going downhill when one of them just forgets the commitment they used to give. 

It was exactly what I did anyway, I put my phone as far as possible from me, even when it's with me, I put them on silent so that I'll forget that I actually have a phone which isn't ringing. Well, things get better when less expectations are being put on, for you maybe it is a necessary but for him it's a hell of pressure. Duh, I don't get this sometimes. But told myself, I am still young, should go enjoy my life rather than waiting for a call that's never coming... If he calls, then he calls. If he doesn't, it's okay, later on I will call. But there's a saying for this type of people, "Appreciate what you have before it is gone."

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Dear SS

Haih, so much of an ATTENTION SEEKER -__-"

Malaysia vs. Indonesia Sukan SEA ke-26, 2011. Sengit!

Half naked on the bed with coffee and laptop as my only accompany wasn't how I planned the holiday... Was drowned in own misery until I decided to get myself up and watch the game of Malaysia vs Indonesia, Sukan SEA ke-26, 2011. Too much of spirit? I don't care as long as I give my all for #HARIMAUMUDA.

And for I force myself to get up and watch this game (I hardly watch any games), so Tigers do bring back Gold for us Malaysians! 

A friend of mine yang memang semangat siap buat pantun;

"Pukul berapa boleh dinner ni pak harimau?
Pukul 8.30 japgi kita makan rendang garuda!
Harimau bukan sebarang harimau!
Bahamlah garuda wahai harimau muda!"

Haha, that's her spirit. :P And not to mention, almost everyone change their dp to one's that wearing Harimau Malaya's shirt. See these spirits Malaysia players? You have to win this for us!

And semua orang punya status pun is supporting you guys :) 

Do you know how fast the twitter was updated bila Malaysia scored the first goal? Everyone was like, "GOAALLLLLLLLLLL!" (haha, k admitted me too) 

Gahhh, this game is getting me all tensed up... But Harimau Malaya, we Malaysians are praying for our victory! Get you head in the game! You can win this!!! 

Here's a motivation for the Indonesians too, you've got your supporters too;

@hyppoleticGOALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@dinalds@hyppoletic haahahaha we support different team. Go indonesia! :P

@hyppoletic@dinalds no problem! Support own country, I see no harm :) well, #GoHarimauMalaya  =)

See, it's just football. I don't hate your country over football. But disrespect the issue, yes I'm quite offended too. I have Indonesians as my friends for God sake! Support own country, I see no harm in that? Right :) All the best to both. But , Harimau-harimau handsome, you got my support! AAAUUUMMMM! 

Do you know what tree this is?

Pokok rambutan dekat depan rumah all this while, and I've never even notice! Ada rambutan kat rumah so; I asked, "mane dapat?" 

adik jawab,"pokok depan rumah..." 

and i was like, "depan rumah ada pokok rambutan? since when?" 

There, it hit me on my face when my dad heard and was laughing at me... Duhh, I can't recognize a tree till I see it's fruit (if i know what fruit it is!). Malunyaaa... -___-"

Maths and Science in English or BM?

I told my brother (taking SPM this year, 2011);

Me: Ok lah, lepas ni belajar kalau belajar account lagi guna Statement of Comprehensive Income and Statement of Financial Position lah pulak...
Him: Ape tu?
Me: err, Income statement dgn Balance sheet lah...
Him: Hah? Ape awk ckp ni.... Ape tu?
Me: ??? crap...

We, struggled learning account in English as soon as we enrolled ourselves into colleges and now they are switching even Maths & Science subjects into Malay again? I mean BM meant no harm, but it may harm these kids, us kids to learn everything all over again. It's gonna be tough. Maths and Science even has loads of it's own terms as well, gosh, have mercy people. At least, the very least of Maths and Science, please leave them be in English... It's quite hard for my brother and sister to be switching from English to malay then later to English again... Even if we learn in English, I don't think we're going to forget our mother tongue language anyway, it's in us, in our blood.. how could we forget? :(

Though this issue is pretty outdated, but still it's an issue since it came up today in my life :)

Consoling people ain't easy

‎"Know when to offer tea or sympathy OR a tool kit and a stout rope. "

First half of pictures as promised.

SNOWALK i-CITY, SHAH ALAM, MALAYSIA

i-City Snow Walk, Shah Alam

JUST CAME BACK FROM i-CITY SNOW WALK WITH AMAZING GIRLS. WAIT FOR OUR PICTURESSSS! *tak sabarnya nak upload =D

Seksualiti Merdeka? Crap.

"Slm. Pasti Cik cik GAYah n semua PONDAN akan jilat Ambiga n kuncu kuncunya Coz pertahankan Hak 'SEKS bebas' ! We wait n see!" - quoted from Twitter.

#WeAll KnowThat Seks Bebas, no any sex before marriage, adalah salah dan haram di sisi agama. Kalau korang-korang nak buat seks, lagi-lagi seks sonsang, nak tanggung dosa, tanggung masing-masing sudah. Kenapa nak tanggungkan dosa untuk satu negara? Tak nampak satu-satu bala dah kena kat negara lain, nak cepatkan lagi bala untuk Malaysia ke? I don't get these people. 

Big And Taste =)

FOOD!!! gahhh

Big & Taste at Section 7, Shah Alam :)

Salam AidilAdha bloggers

They're an inspiration, never had a celeb been my idol. They're the first :)

-Blair Waldorf/ Leighton Meester & Chuck Bass/ Ed Westwick-

I really adore these two people for their very own personality/image.

Gotta admit, as much as I love Blair Waldorf, I love Leighton Meester even more!

And chuck Bass is just the perfect match for her, xoxo.

p/s: this picture is taken from http://sunshinewishes.tumblr.com